time' - my father would repeat with a laugh and shake his head admiringly. He
neither claimed to know the butler's name, nor anyone who had known him, but he
would always insist the event occurred just as he told it. In any case, it is of
little importance whether or not this story is true; the significant thing is,
of course, what it reveals concerning my father's ideals. For when I look back
over his career, I can see with hindsight that he must have striven throughout
his years somehow to become that butler of his story. And in my view, at the
peak of his career, my father achieved his ambition. For although I am sure he
never had the chance to encounter a tiger beneath the dining table, when I think
over all that I know or have heard concerning him, I can think of at least
several instances of his displaying in abundance that very quality he so admired
in the butler of his story.
One such instance was related to me by Mr David Charles, of the Charles and
Redding Company, who visited Darlington Hall from time to time during Lord
Darlington's days. It was one evening when I happened to be valeting him, Mr
Charles told me he had come across my father some years earlier while a guest at
Loughborough House - the home of Mr John Silvers, the industrialist, where my
father served for fifteen years at the height of his career. He had never been
quite able to forget my father, Mr Charles told me, owing to an incident that
occurred during that visit.
One afternoon, Mr Charles to his shame and regret had allowed himself to become
inebriated in the company of two fellow guests - gentlemen I shall merely call
Mr Smith and Mr Jones since they are likely to be still remembered in certain