professionals in
England talking late into the night by the warmth of the fire. And let me tell
you, if you were to have come into our servants' hall on any of those evenings,
you would not have heard mere gossip; more likely, you would have witnessed
debates over the great affairs preoccupying our employers upstairs, or else over
matters of import reported in the newspapers; and of course, as fellow
professionals from all walks of life are wont to do when gathered together, we
could be found discussing every aspect of our vocation. Sometimes, naturally,
there would be strong disagreements, but more often than not, the atmosphere was
dominated by a feeling of mutual respect. Perhaps I will convey a better idea of
the tone of those evenings if I say that regular visitors included the likes of
Mr Harry Graham, valet-butler to Sir James Chambers, and Mr John Donalds, valet
to Mr Sydney Dickenson. And there were others less distinguished, perhaps, but
whose lively presence made any visit memorable; for instance, Mr Wilkinson,
valet-butler to Mr John Campbell, with his well-known repertoire of
impersonations of prominent gentlemen; Mr Davidson from Easterly House, whose
passion in debating a point could at times be as alarming to a stranger as his
simple kindness at all other times was endearing; Mr Herman, valet to Mr John
Henry Peters, whose extreme views no one could listen to passively, but whose
distinctive belly-laugh and Yorkshire charm made him impossible to dislike. I
could go on. There existed in those days a true camaraderie in our profession,
whatever the small differences in our approach.
We were all essentially cut from the same cloth, so to speak. Not the way it is